Anthropomorphism and Dogs: Are We Really That Different?
What is Anthropomorphism?
Anthropomorphism is the act of attributing human traits, emotions, or intentions to non-human entities—like our dogs. While some see it as a mistake or a “bad word” in the animal behavior world, the truth is more nuanced.
Sure, dogs aren’t humans. But we’re not as different as you might think.
Let’s explore some ways we’re actually quite similar—and how embracing these similarities can strengthen your bond with your dog.
1. We’re Both Social Creatures
Dogs are incredibly social animals. For thousands of years, they’ve lived, worked, and played alongside humans. They crave companionship and connection. If you’ve ever had a dog, you know their favorite thing in the world is often you.
Tip: Make time every day to connect with your dog. Whether it’s a walk, cuddle session, or short game, you are your dog’s whole world.
2. We Love Comfort
Given the choice between the cold floor or the cozy couch, most dogs will choose the couch—just like you probably would. Comfort matters to both species.
Tip: Provide your dog with a soft, cozy bed. Sprinkle a few treats on it daily for the first couple of weeks to help create a positive association and keep your couch hair-free.
3. Food = Joy
Dogs love food, and many enjoy working for it just as much as eating it. Like people who enjoy cooking, hunting, or fishing, dogs often find satisfaction in the “search.”
Tip: Try scatter feeding—toss treats or kibble around the yard or living room and let your dog sniff them out. It’s a fun and natural way to satisfy their instincts.
4. Our Brains Aren’t So Different
All mammals share similar brain structures. Dogs, like humans, process fear, emotion, and memory in comparable ways. They are emotional beings that also form deep connection and can even experience PTSD type symptoms from trauma. In fact, brain scans show that the same region that lights up in a baby seeing their mother also lights up in dogs seeing their person.
Tip: Use force-free, science-based training. Dogs learn best through kindness, patience, and repetition— much like a toddler.
5. Motivation Feels Good
Humans aren’t the only ones who feel proud when they accomplish something—dogs do too! Studies show they experience a “Eureka!” moment when they successfully solve a problem or earn a reward.
Tip: Teach your dog new tricks or games. It gives them a mental workout and boosts their confidence.
6. Every Dog is an Individual
Just like people, no two dogs are exactly alike. They have distinct personalities, likes, and dislikes. Sometimes we expect dogs to fit neatly into our lives without recognizing who they really are or expect them to be like our last dog.
Tip: Get to know your dog. Observe what motivates them, how they like to play, and what makes them feel safe and happy.
7. Social Preferences Matter
Not every person enjoys parties or big crowds—and neither do all dogs. Expecting your dog to be “friends” with every other dog or person they meet is unrealistic.
Tip: Respect your dog’s preferences. Some dogs thrive with a tight circle of playmates or even just one close canine friend. That’s perfectly normal. Dogs were also brought into our homes in the past as protectors so some weariness of strangers can be normal especially with certain breeds.
8. Love is Mutual
When you and your dog make eye contact, you both experience a boost in oxytocin—the same “love hormone” that bonds parents to babies.
Tip: Practice gentle, positive eye contact and connection exercises. It strengthens your bond and helps your dog feel safe.
9. Emotions Run Deep
Dogs are emotional beings. They can feel love, fear, jealousy, joy, and anxiety. They read our facial expressions, follow our gestures, and respond to our moods.
Tip: Pay attention to your dog’s body language and behavior. Try to see the world through their eyes—especially when they’re struggling. Compassionate support can make all the difference.
So, Are We That Different?
While dogs are a different species with unique needs that must be respected, they’re not alien to us. In many meaningful ways, they are like us—and we are like them. By recognizing and embracing our similarities, we not only deepen our relationship with our dogs, but also become better, more understanding companions.
Want to build a stronger connection with your dog? Let’s help you meet their needs and embrace who they are. Reach out to schedule a consultation to learn more about relationship-focused training.
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