Do NOT Touch – Preventing Resource Guarding the Right Way!

There’s an old myth still floating around in the dog world: that you should touch your dog, put your hand in their food bowl, or “mess” with them while they’re eating so they’ll get used to it. Unfortunately, this outdated advice often does the opposite of what it intends. Instead of teaching your dog to trust you, it can actually create anxiety and lead to resource guarding.

In my experience working with many dogs who show guarding behaviors, there’s no faster way to damage trust than by bothering them while they’re eating. I’ve seen this backfire again and again. Dogs, just like us, don’t enjoy being disturbed during a meal.

Think about it—imagine you’re at a restaurant enjoying some fries and the waiter (or even your dinner companion) repeatedly touches your plate or leans into your space. You’d be annoyed at best, maybe even defensive. Dogs feel the same way!

It’s also important to understand that guarding is a normal, canine behavior linked to survival. Both humans and dogs protect what they value. We put our money in the bank, hide our favorite candy and lock our car/home. That doesn’t mean it’s acceptable behavior in your home, but it does mean we need to approach it with empathy and understanding.

So how do we prevent resource guarding and build trust?

It’s actually quite simple. While your dog is eating or enjoying a chew, walk by and toss something even better—like a piece of chicken, deli meat, or a favorite treat. Do this often, especially while your dog is still a puppy and forming lifelong associations. In no time, your dog will begin to associate your presence near their food with good things happening.

Think back to that restaurant—if instead of grabbing your fries, the waiter brought you a free dessert every time they walked by, you’d start looking forward to their visits vs. feeling defensive!

As your dog gets more comfortable, you can even practice calling them away from their food and offering an even better reward. This builds trust, strengthens your bond, and teaches your dog that your approach means safety—not stress.

Bottom line:
The best way to prevent resource guarding is not by out of date methods or taking things away, but by building a foundation of trust and positive associations. Be your dog’s safe person, not someone they feel they need to guard against.
Already seeing signs of guarding like growling or tense body language? Don’t wait—reach out and schedule a session ASAP. I can help.

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